Inside Friendify
Character check-ins, built into the relationship.
Let an established character start an occasional in-character check-in after a quiet period — only when you opt in.
Character check-ins
Mira reached out
An occasional, cooldown-controlled character message with global and per-conversation controls.
Character message
Mira checked in
I passed the lantern shop today. It made me wonder how your week has been.
Your controls
What changes for you
Useful in the moment. Quiet the rest of the time.
Character-initiated messages are an optional, cooldown-controlled return loop — not an always-on stream of notifications.
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Keep character-initiated messages off by default.
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Receive at most a controlled check-in instead of stacked pings.
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Mute the feature globally or for one conversation.
Search-friendly overview
proactive AI character messages in Friendify
Friendify proactive character messages are opt-in, rate-limited in-character check-ins with in-app notifications and per-conversation mute controls.
A permission, not an assumption
Character check-ins require the proactiveMessages Privacy permission and can be turned off again at any time.
Quiet-period guardrails
Only eligible active web conversations are considered, with idle windows, cooldowns, atomic claims, and unread-notification anti-stacking.
Per-conversation control
Keep check-ins for one relationship while muting another without disabling the rest of Friendify.
Questions
What people usually want to know first.
Can a Friendify character message first?
Yes, when the feature is enabled by the operator and you have explicitly allowed character-initiated messages.
Can I stop one character from checking in?
Yes. Each eligible conversation has its own mute control in addition to the global Privacy permission.